Hukuncin Kiss Tsakanin Saurayi Da Budurwa
Akwai abubuwa da dama da ke faruwa a tsakanin saurayi da budurwa a lokacin soyayya. Daya daga cikin abubuwan da mutane ke yawan tambaya shi ne hukuncin kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa a Musulunci. Wannan tambaya tana da matukar muhimmanci, domin addinin Musulunci yana bayar da kulawa sosai game da mu'amala tsakanin maza da mata, musamman ma idan ba'a yi aure ba.
A cikin wannan post, zamu tattauna dalla-dalla gameda hukuncin kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa a Musulunci, dalilin da yasa hakan ya haramta, da kuma irin bala'in da hakan ke iya jawowa mutum a addinance da zamantakewa.
Ma’anar Kiss Tsakanin Saurayi Da Budurwa
Kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa yana nufin sumbatar baki ko wani sashi na jiki tsakanin saurayi da budurwa masu soyayya ba tare da auren juna ba. Wannan abu na faruwa ne domin nuna so da ƙauna a tsakaninsu.
A al’ada da zamantakewar yau da kullum, musamman a fina-finai da labarai, mutane suna kallon kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa a matsayin wani abun morewa kawai, ba tareda la’akari da addini ba. A addinin Islama akwai hukunci mai tsauri gameda irin wannan mu’amala.
Hukuncin Kiss Tsakanin Saurayi Da Budurwa a Musulunci
A Musulunci, kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa wanda ba su yi aure ba haramun ne. Wannan hukunci ya samo asali ne daga dalilai masu karfi guda uku:
1. Haramcin Kusanci da Zina
Allah (SWT) yana cewa a cikin Alkur’ani:
"Kada ku kusanci zina, lallai alfasha ce mummuna." (Surah Isra’i: 32)
Kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa na daya daga cikin abubuwan da ke kai mutum ga zina. Duk wani abu da zai kai mutum zuwa haram, to shi ma haramun ne. Wannan ya sanya malamai suka yarda cewa kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa ba da aure ba haramun ne.
2. Haddi da Izzar Mace
Addinin Musulunci yana daraja mace da mutuncinta. Aikin kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa na rage darajar mace a idon saurayi da kuma al’umma. Musulunci yana son a zauna da izza da mutunci kafin aure.
3. Kaucewa Sha’awa
Kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa yana haddasa fitina a cikin zuciyar mutum, kuma yana iya kaiwa ga aikata manyan laifuka kamar zina, wanda hakan babban zunubi ne a Musulunci.
Abinda Malamai Ke Cewa Gameda Kiss Tsakanin Saurayi da Budurwa
Malamai da dama sunyi bayani a kan wannan batu:
- Malaman Malikiyya da Shafi’iyya sun bayyana cewa haramcin kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa ya zama abun dubi domin hakan na daga cikin abubuwan da ke kaiwa ga zina.
- Malaman Hambaliyya da Hanafiyya suma sun amince cewa duk wata mu’amala da ke kunshe da saduwa da juna ba tare da aure ba haramun ce.
An karbo daga Hadisin Annabi (SAW):
"Daya daga cikinku bai kamata ya taba wata mace da ba muharramarsa ba." (Ahmad da Tabrani)
Wannan ya tabbatar da haramcin kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa.
Illolin Kiss Tsakanin Saurayi Da Budurwa
Baya ga kasancewar hakan haramun a addini, kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa na da wasu matsaloli da illoli da za su iya jawo:
1. Kaiwa Ga Zina
Kamar yadda muka fada, kiss yakan zama hanyar da ke kai mutum zuwa zina.
2. Daukar Cuta
Hakan na iya haddasa daukar cututtuka kamar cutar HSV (Herpes) da sauran cututtuka masu yaduwa ta baki ko lokacin saduwa kamar cutar kanjamau.
3. Rage Daraja da Mutunci
Yakan jawo saurayi ya fara ganin budurwa a matsayin mara kamun kai, hakan yana iya haddasa rashin mutunci da rabuwa a soyayya a fasa yin aure.
4. Sabon Allah (SWT)
Mutum da yake aikata haramun kamar kiss yana nisanta kansa daga rahamar Allah.
Menene Mafita?
Mafita ga duk saurayi da budurwa da ke son yin rayuwa bisa tsarin Musulunci shi ne:
- A yi hakuri har sai an yi aure.
- A kame kai daga duk wani abu da zai kai ga zina.
- A kasance cikin tsoron Allah da bin umurninsa.
Idan saurayi yana son budurwarsa da gaske, ya kamata ya kai kansa da ita ga rayuwar aure, domin hakan ne mafita ta halal da kuma samun lada a wajen Allah.
Yadda Saurayi Zai Nuna Soyayya Ba Tareda Haramci Ba
- Yin addu’a domin mallakar juna cikin hanya ta halal.
- Taimakawa juna a al’amuran rayuwa.
- Yin magana ta hanyar ladabi ba tareda shiga sha’awa ba.
- Kai iyaye don neman aure idan an shirya.
Kammalawa
Kiss tsakanin saurayi da budurwa a Musulunci haramun ne matuka, domin yana daga cikin hanyoyin da ke kai mutum ga zina wacce mummunan aiki ce. Dukkan musulmai na da hakkin kare kansu daga irin wannan mu’amala. Soyayya ta gaskiya ita ce wadda za ta kai mutum zuwa ga aure, ba wadda za ta jefa mutum cikin zunubi ba.
Duk saurayi da budurwa da ke son juna da gaske, su nemi hanyar halal don samun juna. Idan kana son soyayya ta halal, aure shi ne mafita.
Allah ya kare mu daga dukkanin fitintinu na duniya da lahira. آمين.